http://spaceagesage.com/2008/04/15/those-who-control/ Where wisdom fuels change Wed, 08 Feb 2012 05:56:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 http://spaceagesage.com/2008/04/15/those-who-control/#comment-548 Audacious Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:16:32 +0000 http://spaceagesage.wordpress.com/?p=103#comment-548 No. He's the one who set the wrong boundaries first for being such a nasty controller. But that's over. We're fine now. And yes sure I was SAFE during the war. I got loyal and strong army, that is ME. No. He’s the one who set the wrong boundaries first for being such a nasty controller. But that’s over. We’re fine now. And yes sure I was SAFE during the war. I got loyal and strong army, that is ME.

]]> http://spaceagesage.com/2008/04/15/those-who-control/#comment-549 spaceagesage Tue, 15 Apr 2008 16:04:19 +0000 http://spaceagesage.wordpress.com/?p=103#comment-549 Jo -- You certainly set a strong boundary with him, but I hope you were safe during that time of WAR! I know people do change, but I have to gauge for myself if it is deep change or not. I have found you can't change others, though, you can only change yourself. Jo — You certainly set a strong boundary with him, but I hope you were safe during that time of WAR! I know people do change, but I have to gauge for myself if it is deep change or not. I have found you can’t change others, though, you can only change yourself.

]]> http://spaceagesage.com/2008/04/15/those-who-control/#comment-547 Jo Tue, 15 Apr 2008 04:07:16 +0000 http://spaceagesage.wordpress.com/?p=103#comment-547 my dad was an agressive controller. i was a teenager and i hated that. so i declared WAR. i refused talking to him, refused his money, the facility whatever. i spent most of my days on the streets for 3 years. then he gave up, i never knew how. he let me do whatever i want and be whoever i am since then. now i am married, but each month he's still sending me money though he knows exactly that i'm financially safe. maybe he wants to pay for the 3 years... Tee-hee... my dad was an agressive controller. i was a teenager and i hated that. so i declared WAR. i refused talking to him, refused his money, the facility whatever. i spent most of my days on the streets for 3 years. then he gave up, i never knew how. he let me do whatever i want and be whoever i am since then. now i am married, but each month he’s still sending me money though he knows exactly that i’m financially safe. maybe he wants to pay for the 3 years… Tee-hee…

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